So many times in our intimate relationships we are looking to be loved vs looking to be Love. I know it sounds similar, there is a difference and the difference is huge. Being Love uses our gifts and talents to cultivate and nourish our relationships. Being Love creates such a safe, intimate and supportive space, in which Love is more easily reciprocated by our mate.
The woman in us enters the relationship, the reason they normally end is because we hand over the reigns to the little girl within us. Only women can cultivate and maintain healthy vibrant relationships. Here are 3 ways to know when your little girl has shown up:
- Tantrums and Yelling
- Withholding Affection
These are the places that we retreat to, when we are not mature enough to add Love to the space. Be clear, this is not about playing nice or relinquishing your power. On the contrary, the mature approach actually is the best use of power. When we are in little girl mode, we are focused in power over people. The mature us focuses on power with people. This means that we all win!
These tips will help you keep your vibration high and your NRG light so that you can be Love in your space:
- Nurture your Mind – Listen to and read inspiring material.
- Nurture your Emotions – Afllow yourself to feel your feelings.
- Nurture your Body – Adopt the technique of conscious bathing (see the video below).
- Nurture your Spirit – Take time to refresh your spirit with prayer and meditation.
The queen is the most powerful piece on the chess board. Her mere presennce on the board creates an energetic protection for the kingdom and the king. When we are present to our own power and knowing, with our intuition we can be present to our kingdom and to our king. This is the gift of having the feminine power of Love, that resides in us.
Here’s a short video to help you nurture yourself, so that you can more easily reside in your power and be the gentle mature queen warrior lover in your space. Injoy!